our marriage broke up a year ago, and we were just trying one last time to see if it would work. like go back to dating, rather than be married, when we were married he changed, he started treating me like his property, things got really bad. he wanted to get re-married, but i wasn't sure because of how things were the first time. Then i fell pregnant, and he is saying to me to have an abortion and then go back so we can do the things that he wants. I feel like i've already bonded with the baby, I was scared but now i'm also excited. I've found a two-bedroomed house for us, and my job will cover maternity. Also, I dont think i could go through with an abortion.
That leaves one big problem (at least!!) the father wants nothing to do with the baby. he doesn't want to tell his family. My family dont know we were trying to get back together, so they dont even know i could be pregnant. my dad is in the church so he disapproves of single families. I just feel like i'm the only one..
2007-03-04
23:17:45
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