Posted a similar question yesterday, but hoping to get a few more takes on this. I have been married for a few years and have a 7mo.child. During the pregnancy we didn't have sex for 8mos, then for almost 5mos after. Although I try to make her feel sexy, lots of back and foot rubs, etc, I didn't press the issue during the pregnancy. When we finally had sex, she had pain (yes, we have plenty of foreplay, lube) and some bleeding afterward. She's been to a doctor, who has done plenty of tests and finds nothing wrong. I understand the pain is real, and I don't want to hurt her. On the other side, because she is unwilling to find a solution that doesn't include vaginal intercourse, I am feeling my needs are being pushed to the side. This is not just about "getting off" it's about taking care of each other, and we need to find balance. I know she still has a sex drive, she sometimes uses a toy (non-penetrating) when I'm out of town. Please Help! Am I being unreasonable? Any solutions?
2007-02-24
03:22:48
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Killer B
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