I grew up having four step-dads, and I haven't seen my real father since I was three. My sister had a husband that beat her and their marriage ended in divorce. I've never had a positive example of a healthy marriage to base mine on- everyone just gives up. Now, my own marriage is falling apart (we're 24, with a four month old) I'm desperate to make my marriage work, but I feel like the fighting and arguing will never stop. My husband just doesn't respect me anymore and completely dismisses my feelings altogether. I feel like when you get to a certain point, and start to feel like the love you once had for the other person is gone- that it'll never come back again, and that scares me to death. I want to love my husband again, and make a great life for us and our baby. I want to do better than I was shown, and have a happy, drama-free marriage. I know there will always be ups and downs, but when youre as down as you can get, can you get back up again? I miss my husband so much..
2007-02-18
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