I and my boyfreind are in late 20's, i just recenlty found out that his cancer may return anytime, and the doctor said his chance of surviving 10 years is not high. For the last few month he has been in and out of hopsital half of the time, also he gets alot of pain here and there. We have been together for 2 years, i love him, but i am on a 'tight schedule', ie i am close to 30, i want kids and family soon because my biological clock is ticking, knowing his cancer may come back, my future kids my not have a dad, also my stable job maybe in doubt as well, i don't want to be a widow! I feel a huge delimma, emotionally i love him very much, he is the nicest guy i've been with, but something in my head kept telling me that my life will be full of sorror and worry if i stay, i've mentioned a few times about our future with him but he 'begged' me to stay, promising a great health, what should i do? i feel like time is running out
2007-02-17
22:18:31
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