There’s this guy that I have known for years, and I do really like him and care about him as a friend, and we are very similar. However, he really likes me, and keeps sending me flowers, and is really sweet etc, etc. I have been horrible to him in the past to try and get him to back off, but he still likes me.. I am not really nice enough for him… and this is what’s putting me off taking things further.
I feel like I am leading this guy on at the moment, I am not, I just value his friendship.. But the problem is, I do find him attractive, and do want more, but I am just too scared. I have a lot of issues there that am not ready to face, and that’s another reason why it wouldn’t work at the moment.
There is also a matter of distance, he lives 200 miles away from me, and neither of us drive yet… I have made things really complicated, I go and stay with him sometimes, and get ‘lost in the moment’, but he also really irritates me on these weekends. (continued)
2007-02-15
23:40:49
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Tinkerbell
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