Even when we first met, it would take extraordinary measures to get him aroused (sexy lingerie, oils, mood lighting, music, etc. As he's gotten older, the sex has diminished to once every 3-4 months. I love him dearly, and he has many great qualities, but he's terrible in bed, and hates giving oral. He will usually take a Viagra, then need to perform the act without diversion until he ejaculates. If I try to change positions, suggest something different or slow the pace, he loses his erection. I'm certain that this is both a physical and psychological problem, but he's not willing to work on this, and I'm tired of begging because it makes me feel undesireable and sad. I do not wish to end my marriage, but I can't stand the thought of becoming sexless at my age (I'm 41). I am frequently told by other men that I am beautiful, sexy and fun... I am considering an affair. My husband refuses to see a doctor or counselor, so I am left to deal with this (long, loving talks DO NOT HELP)
2007-02-08
19:26:21
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NYTEVIOLET
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Marriage & Divorce