My stepdaughter, "Lois," is 30 years old and has one young child. They have recently begun to visit us every Sunday. Each visit begins about 2 p.m., runs through dinner and ends well after 8 p.m. These are not visits by invitation.
Lois doesn't offer to help with cleanup or setup, nor does she bring a dish. In my family, we contribute. Sometimes a family member may ask us to help clear the table or put food away. Would it be considered improper etiquette to ask Lois to prepare a dessert for the next visit or help with the dishes? My husband thinks it is rude to ask this of anyone, no matter how many times they visit. I think a guest runs out of free meals after a while.
I don't mind the visits, but I'd appreciate a little help. Recently, Lois yelled, "See you next Sunday," as she left. What's your opinion? -- Help Wanted
2007-01-22
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