I do not understand everyone saying this. Yes after some web exploration statistics show that people who go out get drunk, have one night stands or something along those lines...yes it usually happens more than once or twice, they have a very high rate of reoccurence. BUT, through working with my therapist I have learned that a spouse in a marriage of 5 or more years that has an affair lasting several months or more, after discovery and/ or admission has a very low rate of reoccurence. Especially if the married couple recommit to one another and work things out. Actually couple who go through this and MAKE it tend to have a deeper more connected relationship afterward. It just irritates me to know end for people to put all cheaters in the one category. How about the other woman "Once a whore...always a whore? Thats ridiculous, when women like that find someone to love them truley they are usually very happy with that person. So I believe cheaters and 'other people' can all change.
2007-01-17
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