Sometimes I think back many years ago to my first love, that I knew I had to let go, but I still feel bad about it, as if I wish badly that things could have worked out, and that I didn't hurt her when I dumped her, but I know for a fact there was no other choice. And I wouldn't want to go back with her, but I remember, in those short moments, how good things were with us.
Usually I feel this way when I hear a favorite song that reminds me of her because it played when we were together. Or smell her favorite perfume that a female stranger is wearing as she walks by in a Mall. Perhaps this is the effects of love that you can't escape...even though you know the relationship was a failure, you can never forget them no matter who else you're with. (not that your thinking about them all the time ofcourse...just once in a great while)
Does anyone else feel this way about their past ex's? Tell me about it. How do you feel? And how do you cope with it?
2007-01-15
21:35:44
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