Me and my husband have been married for almost 10 years. I don't think he loves me any more. If I ask him, he says that he does, but I think he is lying. I have put on a bit of weight recently and don't look very attractive any more. I often feel depressed and don't always wear make-up. I know I look terrible, but I don't even care any more because my hubby doesn't care. My husband only has sex with me on average once every 3 months. Should that be acceptable? He thinks it is ok, but it really gets me down and makes me feel unwanted. If I try to initiate sex he gets angry and tells me to leave him alone. If I ask for sex, he gives me a look of real disgust as though he feels sick. He only ever kisses me properly (not peck) when we make love, so we are not very often intimate. He hasn't had much sex with me for years. We used to do it several times a day. Why would he want to be like this with me but still want to live with me? Why doesn't he just leave me? I am only 31
2007-01-13
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smudge
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Marriage & Divorce