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Would you see your history as a problem with your currant guy? How would you make sure that sort of thing dosen't bother him especially if the guy has no experience? (And yes, this question would work the other way asked of a guy).

2007-01-13 13:44:02 · 5 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Personally, I think sexual history is irrelevant as long as you practised safe sex and there are no children your partner was previously unaware of. It doesn't matter if the guy is inexperienced, you could learn together how to please each other.

2007-01-13 13:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think it is fair to say that he will not feel okay with sexual history thing..because I personally would bother me to know that my boyfriend has been with so and so..and how he has done god knows what..is he going the exact same thing that he did with her..I mean I get all these question and some people will say it is silly but I think it is not..so I would do not tell him at all and try not to find out the history think better to think it never was anything than asking myself all those questions..

Personally if you ask this question and this seems to obviously bother you should be with someone who doesn’t have any history like you..

There are girls like that even though it seems completely impossible but if you look hard you will find that person.

God Bless!

2007-01-13 22:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by Holy 2 · 0 0

well I would talk in a need to know basis. Sometimes people can be curious of what the other has done in the past, but in my opinion, unless it's for some medical reason, its best not to know too much. If I've never done something and he has, I don't want to know because it would seem more impersonal seeing that he's done it with other girls. For instance, he lost his virginity to someone who keeps trying to get him back (even though we've both told her to buzz off and she can't seem to take the hint.) And I lost my virginity to someone that he doesn't know and has no contact with me whatsoever. It's basically trying to avoid the horrible thought of your significant other being with someone else, especially if you dont' like that other person. Or it could be that you don't want to feel like you're the last to know. It really just depends on the situation. I wouldn't volunteer any information unless they asked you because it's technically your private business.

As far as the guy with no experience, it depends. If he is looking for someone to make love to for the first time, he probably would prefer that you be on his same level or at least close. On the other hand, if he just wants to say he finally got layed, it probably wouldn't matter as much what you've done.

2007-01-13 22:05:52 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0 0

I haven't had any guys that have had a problem with my sexual past but have had allot be happy with my experience level... the way I look at this is- If he has a problem with excepting my past then he couldn't possibly be worth my future.. loving me is loving all of me and not just parts :) :) :)

2007-01-13 21:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by sexton 6 · 0 0

well in my case, I have my first boyfriend and he is 2 and a half years older tham me, I know he is experienced, and I am not, it doesn't bother him at all. And it wouldn't bother me if it was the othe way around...

2007-01-13 21:51:51 · answer #5 · answered by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 · 0 0

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