All categories - 11 January 2007

I'm 43 yr old gay male, and was diagnosed with anal cancer last year. As a result from surgery, my anus was removed, closed shut, and I now have a permanent colostomy. I'm handsome and I used to be able to meet guys quite regularly, but now that I have a colostomy bag, no one is interested in me sexually or even for dating anymore. On some recent first-time-meeting dates I've decided not to tell the new man about my colostomy. My strategy was for us to get better acquainted first. Unfortunately, (and this usually happens on dinner dates) my stoma lets out a loud gassy, passing wind-sound (pardon my blunt wording...but "fart" sound). Well, needless to say, the man will then make a terrified look, as he tries to imagine how a sound like that came from my front belly! I was even on a date where I once had a "bag blow-out" on the dance floor (those with colostomies will know the term very well). I'm happy to be alive, but I don't want to be alone the rest of my life. Any advice?

2007-01-11 16:20:06 · 17 answers · asked by C-Bag 4 in Singles & Dating

i'm in doubt and wanna be sure? should he see a doctor to know?is there any other way, i don't think he will agree to go

2007-01-11 16:20:04 · 7 answers · asked by Mark L 1 in Mental Health

I have a REALLY bad habit of biting my nails and fingers. It hurts and looks bad, but I don't know how to stop! Please help!
Thanx!!!!!!!!

2007-01-11 16:20:03 · 11 answers · asked by cam - [ily]♥ 3 in Dental

2007-01-11 16:20:02 · 11 answers · asked by mary_not_cathy 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I see homophobia based on the Bible, I see people advising Christians not to marry their non-religious loved one, because it would be 'unevenly yoked', I see hatred, etc, etc.

I'm not saying it's only Christians that are bad, every group has bad apples. But this is the group that keeps on telling me that "I need Jesus in my heart to be able to feel true love".

Is it weird that more and more I get the feeling there is a group of Christians that could better use a little more Jesus in their brain, instead of their so called hearts?

2007-01-11 16:19:57 · 15 answers · asked by ? 6 in Religion & Spirituality

2007-01-11 16:19:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

2007-01-11 16:19:47 · 8 answers · asked by westkydude_34 1 in Weddings

2007-01-11 16:19:45 · 15 answers · asked by Q 1 in Religion & Spirituality

The french guys on Martha Stewart--------> http://youtube.com/watch?v=2Bn7o0yc6a0

*Need your honest opinions-good or bad!

2007-01-11 16:19:45 · 4 answers · asked by choosinghappiness 5 in Polls & Surveys

I have a Girlfriend and she was on her period and we had sex, the condom slipped off during that time...a week later she had her period...thats twice in a month....and a month later her period came 1 week late...can she still be pregnant?

2007-01-11 16:19:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

Black Diamonds originate in hydrogen-rich interstellar space. aka carbonado diamonds. They were formed in stellar supernovae explosions. Are they more or less expensive than regular diamonds since they come from outer space. Are they stronger?

2007-01-11 16:19:37 · 3 answers · asked by ZORRO 3 in Earth Sciences & Geology

She's an African Pigmy named Chantico. She hates water, but gets to dirty of feet, running on her wheel, for me to ignore? She won't stay still. Any experiences Hedgehog owners have suggestions? Thanks.

2007-01-11 16:19:32 · 4 answers · asked by ARMY Babe 4 in Other - Pets

I bought some expired motrin from my local college bookstore and not knowing that it was expired consumed it. I feel really mad that the store is selling aspirin that 7 months expired. I'm not really sure if I should tell the store, or report them. What should I do?

2007-01-11 16:19:30 · 6 answers · asked by Mizz Nay 2 in Other - Health

Will the professors' degrees be taken away for giving passing grades to George?

2007-01-11 16:19:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics

http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20070112/ts_nm/greece_explosion_dc

In the day and age of 24hr news, everyone seems pretty low-key. Is it just me?

2007-01-11 16:19:19 · 6 answers · asked by 3rd parties for REAL CHANGE 5 in Current Events

why did moses need to go to the mountian to recieve the 10 comandments . why didnt god just give them to him in frount of evry one ..... it seems in most religions there is someone god talks to in secret they never seem to have any witnesses that god really did talk to them .... that seems to cause doubt ...the secretcy ... it says god is no respector of persons....so why dont god just tell us what he wants us to know or at least tell the chosen ones while we r with them so we can witness it is true and not have to guess or wonder about their motives the bible says for us not to put our faith in man

2007-01-11 16:19:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

2007-01-11 16:19:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Cats

2007-01-11 16:19:02 · 4 answers · asked by Aussie Angel 2 in Polls & Surveys

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2007-01-11 16:19:02 · 2 answers · asked by Dre D 2 in Security

Do you think that I should be mad at my boyfriend for talking to another girl on the phone for hours while I am doing my homework and he texts me telling me that he is talking to her???

2007-01-11 16:18:58 · 33 answers · asked by ktty093 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a finance major, but I'm only in my 2nd semester of college. Do you think I can get on a brokerage firm or something of that nature being so young?

2007-01-11 16:18:56 · 4 answers · asked by Arnold 3 in Careers & Employment

can't wait. is this also going to be their last season?

2007-01-11 16:18:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Television

live video or score card

2007-01-11 16:18:54 · 10 answers · asked by roger r 1 in Cricket

If the Old Testament is fulfilled in Christ, then why are so many Christians claiming that you have to observe the Old Law?

2007-01-11 16:18:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

fortunate people often have very favorable beginning and tragic endings. what matters isn't being applauded when you arrive-for that is common but being missed when you leave.

2007-01-11 16:18:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Words & Wordplay

reese witherspoon( just like heaven) or brittany snow( john tucker must die)

2007-01-11 16:18:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Celebrities

rational answers from both sides, not just emotional rants please.
thank you.

2007-01-11 16:18:36 · 9 answers · asked by atlas shrugged and so do i 5 in Media & Journalism

My son will be 1 in a few days and i want to start weening him off the bottle, but he hates sippy cups, he has to have one to go to bed, I dont know what to do. HELP

2007-01-11 16:18:27 · 17 answers · asked by Danielle B 1 in Toddler & Preschooler

2007-01-11 16:18:15 · 9 answers · asked by Isabel 2 in Other - Health

Hey everyone! Im getting a new car (2005 dodge neon) and i want to personailze the license plate. anyone got any cool or funny ones? it can be only 7 characters long. thanks! :D

2007-01-11 16:18:13 · 5 answers · asked by ally 3 in Insurance & Registration