Do you think that I should be mad at my boyfriend for talking to another girl on the phone for hours while I am doing my homework and he texts me telling me that he is talking to her???
2007-01-11 16:18:58 · 33 answers · asked by ktty093 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes you should be upset...
Should probably dump his ***!!!
2007-01-11 16:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by Becca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not be mad at him. Here is why... Even though he is talking to another girl, doesn't mean that he doesn't like you or isn't interested in you. The other girl could be having a problem that your boyfriend knows how to help with. If you get jealous of this it will only turn him off to you and will show signs of immaturity. I suggest being cool about it and don't worry, just continue the relationship as it is.
2007-01-11 16:22:08 · answer #2 · answered by kingshighway77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kitty he was being honest with you about talking to her. If you have a strong relationship and you trust him then I wouldn't blow it out of portion; however I would talk to him and ask questions to see who the other girl was and how long they have known each other and to see if I could meet her to... I mean if she is a friend then she and he shouldn't mind if you were in the equation. If you don't get anywhere with him then I would move on. He isn't worth your time. That means he is not worth you wasting anytime getting mad or feeling hurt or lease than. In a good relationship you should always feel full of love even during the hard times.
2007-01-11 16:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by Renee M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships are based on trust. Not completly on trust, but mostly. If you suspect that he is doing something behind your back, then you should calmly sit him down and plainly ask him if there is anything that he needs to tell you. Because the best thing for you to do is give him that last change to redem himself, before something happens. Also, if there is something going on and you start to get really mad. Dont blow up. Just realize that this BOY wasnt made for you and you need someone who wont lie to you, or cheat on you, and doesnt keep secrets from you. hope this answers you question. c bates
2007-01-11 16:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by cbates65 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what his intent was and how often this happens. If he has known this girl for a while and they are good friends its pretty harmless but if he has just called her in boredom and to flirt for the meantime while ur doing ur homework thats different. I myself would be mad at my boyfriend if he did that. Just talk to him about it and say that you dont like him calling other girls. Good luck sweetie.
2007-01-11 16:23:07 · answer #5 · answered by tu_sweet189 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No least he was honest with you and let you know what was going on. What was more important him and his conversation or your home work be glad that he didn't have you on the phone and there fore you couldn't of done your home work . keep the lines of communication open the key words were my boyfriend she's just a friend he can have them can't he?
2007-01-11 16:24:18 · answer #6 · answered by miss out spoken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get mad... I mean, it depends on the reason of the call, and who called who... but if your boyfriend called and it was cuz he's got nothing better to do.. you should get mad and tell him how you feel about the situation
2007-01-11 16:22:46 · answer #7 · answered by L007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be mad at him unless you have a feeling that there might be something between them. If you trust him, he would definitely respect you more. If you even have a slight feeling he might have feelings for her, tell him that it bothers you when you talk to her and let him assure you that nothing is going on! =)
2007-01-11 16:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hours is too long i think. But he is with you for a reason. I would try asking him why he talks to her so much. Probably nothing big and you don't want to be overbearing. But it is something to keep your eye on. Good luck amiga
2007-01-11 16:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by freshlybakedj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he was honest about it and thats a good reason not to get mad, learn to trust your boyfriend, if for just that simple matter you will get mad then your relationship cannot survive the toughest times
2007-01-11 16:24:51 · answer #10 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the real question should be DO I TRUST my boyfriend? If you do than no he told you he was talking to her are they friends? I think it boils down to this if you trust him than no If you think he is missing around with this girl than maybe he isn't the one for you.
2007-01-11 16:24:23 · answer #11 · answered by terisa s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋