married for 4 years, with a 1 year old and an 8 year old (previous marriage). Today I got so pissed off because I was off of work and instead of arraging to spend quality time with me, he told me that he's planning a big day with his friend tomorrow, while I'm at work...He wants to take the kids to his mom's and have lots of fun with his buddy. Meanwhile we havent gone out or done anything fun in over 6 months, he acts like he doesnt need to treat me special anymore. Every weekend we might go out to the store, or grab a bite to eat, but then he hits the couch, naps for a few hours, plays his XBOX for hours and then waits for me to cook dinner. I feel unromanced, taken for granted and constanly surrounded by children! Then when I finally tell him how I feel he gets all defensive and makes me feel sorry for him that what I said made him feel like crap. How do I make him understand that he could possibly lose me if he keeps ignoring my needs? It makes me feel that he doesnt even love me.
2007-01-06
16:04:05
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trajikqueen
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Marriage & Divorce