My husband commented that I was not sexy. I admit that I have some work to do, but it seems like he wants a quick fix for something that I have struggled with my entire life, weight. I try to do the best with what I have but he doesn't seem to notice. I bought a new pair of dark jeans and wore them with a v-neck sweater and a blazer over it, I thought how trendy and cute. His comment was, those jeans make your bottom look bigger. I was crushed and went to change immediately. I am having trouble becoming motivated to change, since I become resolved to make him see he is wrong about me. It becomes a battle of wills, the "I'll show him..." syndrome that gets us nowhere. He says, "Instead of trying to cover up what you have and make it seem like you are something you are not i.e. an hour glass figure, why don't you make more of an effort to lose weight?" I feel as though I can not win for losing, don't bother and I am a slob, make an effort and I am deceitful.
2006-12-28
01:30:50
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msfeliz777
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Marriage & Divorce