Since I don't know who is patrolling this website, I'm going to start out saying I have this "friend". So I have this friend who is in the military and she has had a gf for over two years. She joined the military last february. Her girlfriend and her and still together, in fact she is stationed only four hours away from her home town and her gf moved up there and got an apartment. They are doing great. Her gf is very supportive, optimistic, and EXTREMELY understanding. The military one has been thinking about career options and is not sure if she will re-enlist (3 years from now), but that's not the point. Her gf is supportive if she wants to stay in or get out. But,the one in the military is concerned..is hiding yourself, your partner, your "other" life, worth a career? Even if it's a great career? They are very careful and the military one is thriving in her career, and things are great. But, it has to eventually get old hiding...but maybe not...I don't know...what do you think?
2006-12-22
11:42:15
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