I have an estranged mother. I haven't seen her or had her apart of my life for over 12 years. I am getting married this year, and just found out she is aware of the wedding. I don't want her there, it would ruin 'my special day'. Her side of the family disowned me, so none of them will be there either. There really isen't anyone who would be able to tell her the details of the event, but she is mentally unstable, and has gone to great lengths in the past to try and make herself present at my 'milestones' (highschool graduation etc). I want to know if anyone has any suggestions on how to keep a wedding 'locked down' without having it be obvious to guests. I really don't want her there, and I also don't want my guests to see her being escorted out by police. It feels like a fine line, and I am worried.
For anyone who is concerned about her, don't be. Believe me when I say this women has NO right to be apart of my adult life.
2006-12-21
22:06:13
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Melissa N
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