I love my kids very much. I even started to work a 2nd job so my wife could go part time to be with the kids rather than them in a daycare. This arrangement has been inplace for about 6 years now and every year my wife has become more and more distant from me. Now she spends no time with me alone. If we go out to dinner or the movies the kids have to go along. I don't mind takeing them but sometimes I want to spend time with my wife alone. I've tried for at least 3 years to take her away for the weekend , I even let her pick the place, but she always has a excuse why she can't go. She;ll say that one of the kids has a softball tournament or practice so she can't make it. Anybody can take them to practice for us. Why won't she spend time with me? Why are my kids first before me? Is this right or normal? Or is it just me making a big deal out of nothing? I miss our times we use to have together, I want them back!
2006-11-29
21:54:22
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Marriage & Divorce