My fiancee wants to keep in touch with the love of his life, magic lover, who he had when she was separated from her husband. The two of them email, call and see each other with "boundaries" because he is engaged and she is back with her husband. She deos not tell her husband, and he did not tell me, as not to "hurt" either of us. When I found out I went ballistic because he promised 9 months ago that he would never email, call or see her again, because it upset me. Apparently, the husband would be equally upset. This stinks, huh? My fiancee is trying to make me think/feel that I am jealous, insecure and have made an unreasonable demand. I think THEY should get together, although he says that can't be because when he proposed to her she said, "No" and went back to her husband. Why does he need me and her? I think he took her wishes (to stay in contact) over mine to end the "friendship", and that puts me in a less important position. Any thoughts?
2006-11-13
18:15:42
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LuckyEddie
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