my daughter has been married for 4 years to a man in the millitary. he does have some control issues with her, which i never thought were so serious, but i guess they are. he is deployed now and she feels the relationship will never get any better, and wants to separate or even divorce him when he gets back. she says she has given him too many chances to change his behavior, to only have things revert back to the old ways. i have tried to talk her out of this because of there son. she wont get counseling, but he says he will when he gets back to save their family. she tells me hes out of chances. i really do like him and hope he can change for his own sake , but i feel shes making a mistake. he has called my husband from korea, and he seems heartbroken. she says she dosent feel the same about the relationship since he hasent changed. also i think she may be talking to other guys, just talk, but i dont feel thats right. im worried for all of them, especially the little boy.
2006-11-10
04:18:14
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Marriage & Divorce