Some parents give their kids very humiliating punishments. I know a 17 yo girl that messed up, drank, joined bad crowds and got a cruel punishment. Sher has to wear rag clothes, spends every saturday and sundays doing housework, is grounded from everything she likes and has to do chores for her sister. Other parents don't go so far but resort to long and strict groundings that spoil their kids lives and emotional stabilty. Other spank, or spank and in addition give other punisments.At 14 I can't understand such things. Punishment is sometmes necessary, but if given by parents it should be out of love. Why do parents give such punishments, don't they love their kids? Harsh punishments coming from parents brings about resentment and destroy emotional stabilty, for parents should be our primary and uncontional source of love. Why is this not the case? I myself have had a strong resentment towards my parents for a year, though technically wasn´t abused. But our relationship is destroyed
2006-11-09
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