OK here goes, If f you have read my profile you have a little idea of my life. My wonderful wife and I have been together for 17 years and married for 16. She left me two weeks ago to keep her and our children safe. The problem comes in with my attitude. I was down right nasty to them, for a long time. This is not the first time we have seperated for this, the difference this time is I knew it was happening and didn't know what to do. I was so depressed this time, I told her so. For so long I have unknowingly viewed my family as an inconvenience. I worked from the time I got out of bed till I went to bed. If I wasn't actually working I would just plan my workfor tomorrow. Now, we have dinners out and I am taking care of them financially which I do enjoy. The time together is great but saying goodbye each time is hard. How do I show her how much that I love her. I want to win back her love, I know it is there but how do I find it? I am getting couselling that I need and will continue.
2006-11-06
21:57:42
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spbeirman
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Marriage & Divorce