Can my husband who from the age of 22 to 41 was aggressive, on a number of occasions violent, abusive, controlling, mean, a liar, secretive and boring, suddenly become charming, kind, generous, considerate, calm, funny etc etc? He moved out because I caught him cheating but comes back to our house every weekend and has become all the above. He says he wants to change but needs time to decide what he wants from life. Please read my previous question for other things he also said as there is no space to tell all on one page. Do you think he is playing for time for some reason only known to him? Legally, he can't make me sell the house till our daughter is 18. Would he go to the extent of playing happy families including taking me on holiday and sleeping with me just to keep an eye on his share of the house? I know he is still lying because he says that during the week he doesn't go out, but I have waited outside his place and seen him come home late. Why lie about it?
2006-10-30
01:18:40
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Nancy S
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Marriage & Divorce