Before my wife of several years and I ever even met, a single male freind and I would while away a few hours in a topless bar, maybe 2 times a month. Not flinging money at the dancers, but definitely enjoying the view, if you know what I mean.
Since my wife and I have been together, I have not been back.
Here's the question....
Why does she still hold this against me? and what can I do about it?
Apparently she feels justified in trotting this out every time we disagree on her looks. I think she's a stunning woman, with voluptuous curves, but she sees her curves as a negative, as she does not match the "dancer" physical type.
Apparently, my having spent time looking at scantily clad women in the distant past implies that I want to continue doing so, even after 8 years of fidelity.
How can I help her get over this? How can I keep from going nuts when she trots out this broke-down old horse at every opportunity?
2006-10-30
05:44:10
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George Curious
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Marriage & Divorce