I live without my husband.I have 3 daughters, S(age 15), K(age 14) and J(age 14).K is pregnant from a guy she had had sex with(they didn't know each-other).K is in 8th month now.In my house the rules are sipmle - everybody does his house work which includes washing plates,mop floors,shopping,make the bed,tidy rooms,etc.Recently K pretends to feel tired because of the big belly and doesn't want to mop the floor in her room and tidy the room.I don't think she is right and the rule is - if you dare to get pregnant at 14,you have the consequences,so I don't treat her more indulgently than her sisters.After the complaint,I punished K and now she mops the floors in all rooms and tidies all the rooms.She also washes her clothes without a washing machine.When do I HAVE to abolish the punishment?I want her feel hard to do the work.She is in 31 week.Her belly is really big for a pregnant in 8-th month.When she will REALLY be unable to do the work?
2006-10-29
01:11:56
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