I love my girlfriend very much. We have had a rocky relationship for 9 years. We have alot of differences. She seems to be lazy. I am always on the move. She is terrible with money management, which puts her in debt always. I save and plan for the future. She gambles past her means at times. I'm not really a gambler. I feel as if I am always doing things for her, and she does little for me. For example, I'll bring her dinner, or a small gift at times, but she doesn't seem appreciative. I have helped her financially, but she doesn't seem to learn. Because of my unhappiness, I have cheated on her twice. It wasn' t for sex. I was with 2 women who seemed to appreiate me. I know it was wrong and I'll never do it again because of the pain it has caused everyone involved. My question is, if she wishes to work it out, should I stay with her with the understanding of a permanent commitment. My last affair was with a wonderful woman who never argued with me. We fit well.
2006-10-15
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