I know what the typical answers are. But just to elaborate on this relationship. This man and I have been friends for over a year, and gradually it grew into a much deeper feeling. Possibly on both sides. He has told me he loves me, but I have yet to return the saying. I feel bad about his wife, but I don't feel guilty for loving him. It seems right to me. I know that he feels very deeply for me. I have discussed this with a very close friend and she asks if I expect him to leave his wife. I don't know how to answer that question. I couldn't ask him to do that, but if he did I would be very happy. I do love this man. He is quite possibly my soulmate. The problem I have is, do I let him go now, or do I pursue this relationship and posibily get the man of my dreams? The marriage is not a happy one. They married because she got pregnant. We have not been intimate and I do not plan on being until he is divorced. Please don't answer if you don't have some CONSTRUCTIVE advice!
2006-10-14
21:58:46
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