a guy can be "too nice" and a guy can be an a hole. both or not acceptable so whats in between
2006-10-14 21:58:16 · 3 answers · asked by ronwilcox 2 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Other - General Health Care
An a hole doesn't know HOW to be too nice....but a guy who is too nice is a bit of an a hole anyway cos it usually means he's being "sucky" and that can be irritating...suggestions: be polite but not sucky, be generous but not smothering, be gentle but strong (let her know if you think she's being a pain but be nice about it), be tender when its important but not when its not...that's creepy...and ALWAYS remember the difference between men and women - neither is superior to the other we are just different.
2006-10-14 22:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by ABCugetME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one likes extremes. when i say i dont like guys that are 'too nice' (because i do say that) i mean that i just dont like guys that I KNOW will do anything I say, or agree with every opinion i have, or give me whatever i ask for (which is unlike me anyways, to ask for things I mean). I guess what Im trying to say is that i dont like guys that I feel I can walk all over. Not that I would, but a girl knows when shes got that power over a guy, and for me its a turn off. I like guys that are strong. That i know are doing things for me because they feel like it, not because they are kissing my ***. I like a guy to have his own mind and act like a man that he is, not like a little *****. I want to see a guy Im with as an equal, not like someone I can punk.
2006-10-14 22:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by Esme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In between is not smothering and not always wanting to help to the extreme. But being friendly, courteous and caring is nice and to be desired.
2006-10-14 22:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋