OK... so my ex and I, who still love one another dearly and were convinced we were one anothers "happily ever after", broke up shortly after our 1yr anniversary due to a number of factors:
1. We live an hour away from one another
2. We work completely different schedules, and his includes working Saturday nights. Hes in music (the biz, as well as being a DJ on weekends) I'm a 9-5er.
3. I didn't feel like I was getting what I needed (as far as time/attention are concerned), because most of his time is occupied by his job. His mind is always working. I was getting angry and jealous (even though it took me a long time to come to terms with that) and acting out on it, even though I'm not the jealous type.
Theres also a 9yr age difference, but that was never an issue.
So how do you make it work? Any ideas?
it got pretty ugly for a while, and there's a lot of pain, but we jsut started talking again, and both know that we love each other, just don't know what to do about starting over
2006-10-09
04:41:18
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