My girlfriend of around 3 years never stops moaning about her job, her life, her weight, just about anything she can think of. I take her on amazing trips, out for dinner, i try my best to cheer her up and lift her mood, to listen, reassure and support, but sometimes it seems never ending. It used to be 1 or 2 weeks of her being depressed, following by a few weeks of her being up and fun and interested in me and us, rather than just herself. But whilst i love her i really don't know if i can do it anymore. Particularly as she never has the energy to do anything apart from get drunk and chain smoke every night, and then complains about how fat and unhealthy she feels. Is there anything i could do to try and help her out of it? I've tried everything and am worried that at the end of the day you can only make yourself happy, not someone else. She's certainly not making me or herself happy....
2006-10-03
23:31:37
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cameron s
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