is it okay to marry a person u have known for years,u are very close to,wonderful friends,compatible,rich ,good at heart and everything a gal wants but leaves u cold on bed. how much does physical aspects matter in a relationship?
2006-10-03 23:32:34 · 29 answers · asked by dimdim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I dont think that the physical aspect of a relationship is very important. Having been in a wonderful relationship (probably the most fulfilling ive ever been in, definitely the healthiest!) that didnt really include a huge component of the physical stuff, and a terrible relationship that consisted basically of the physical, go for this man. If it's love, you dont need to be warm in bed, you need to be warm everywhere else.
2006-10-03 23:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by talz_talz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The physical aspect in a relationship is very important. It can also differ from person to person or relationhips.
If you love this man in a non sexual way then why maarry him?
If the two of are unable to have sex then one of you will cheat and that will be the end of your relationship.
Marriage is about love, sex and trust but most importantly about being one with that person and the only time your one with someone is when you have sex.
Why bother getting married to this man if you can just be his friend because frends can be close, compatible, rich good at heart.
I think he/she is the type of person you want to marry but not the actual person per say.
Marriage is very serious do not take it as a joke.
good luck sweetie
2006-10-04 06:38:21 · answer #2 · answered by MERCAYDEES 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ooohhh. sounds like you know the answer and trust me, no matter what you are trying to validate why you should marry someone that you are not sexually compatible with is obvious, no, it is not REALLY 'okay' but hey, we are women and why be so sexual about everything , oh yeah, men are the only ones that can be 'sexual' ....mmmm, I say there are some strange things going on but I also know by experience that yeah, it is quite 'okay' to have all but the sex. and this is what is going to happen: your feelings (in time) will grow very tired & isolation (loneliness, hence....) a slow pinching of self-confidence (mentally & physically!) will tug on you because no one is tugging on you! will find its way into your psyche/heart and no more 'friends' is going to exist...Physical aspects matter tons when you are asking this question. Save a friendship and do not get married...just keep it simply 'as is'.
2006-10-04 06:49:48 · answer #3 · answered by Susan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of being married is the physical aspect. This part is just as important as anything else in a marriage. If you overlook this now it may come back and destroy your marriage as well as your friendship.
2006-10-05 18:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by Abhijat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking a question like that on Yahoo I think you know the answer yourself - certainly not ok to do this! Stay friends and give this guy a chance of love for himself!
2006-10-04 06:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex is a very essential part in a married life. it brings 2 people close to one another n strengthens the relationship. relax n enjoy it!
2006-10-04 06:53:20 · answer #6 · answered by queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not compromise now - if you do, you will regret later.
You need to have se*x to survive. So if you dont get in marriage, you will look for it outside marriage. Thats the end of the relationship.
Be friends with this guy. Dont marry him.
2006-10-05 04:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO,because physical aspects matter...in a great way.
2006-10-04 06:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by saumitra s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.. Well... She is Cold is the bed.. may be its good considering a doc.. for sexual feelings.
Medically.. Everyting in Sex is possible..?
Emoitionally... Is she the Right one ?
2006-10-05 05:07:20 · answer #9 · answered by deepak_k_rana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be she does not want to have sex with you, maybe she like having you lay there next to her for comfort who knows sit down with her and have a heart to heart talk
2006-10-04 06:43:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋