I am bisexual. My husband knew this when we met. Although I have been with two girls in the past, I continue to search for a third to enjoy. He gets insulted at the very mention of it now. I expressed how it was part of me being sexual and that I won't change. This is causing him to be insecure and upset with me. He states that he planned on only having me for the rest of our lives and won't let me have a playmate. I even asked him to join in on a threesome, and that he would get first dibs. He said that's not something a guy does with the woman he chooses to marry and gets extremely upset, ending the conversation.
How can I make him see, that I wasn't planning on changing him when we met and that I don't expect that of him. I go without having a girl for about 1-2 years, and then suddenly I want to enjoy again, but with no strings attached. How do I convince him?
I have even gone so far as to ask him what he would do if he came home and saw me, and he freaked out on me! HELP.
2006-10-02
05:04:17
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Mystress
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