I have been married for nearly 15 years... to a kind, gentle, loving man. He told me so many times that he loved me, would never leave me or his children, would always take care of us. Then, last year, him and his dad restored this corvette. He got a new haircut, started dressing trendier and then low and behold, he's seeing someone.
I had always told myself that I would never let a man cheat on me, I would break-up/divorce him right away, but with him, I have always been willing to forgive. This whole thing is just heartwrenching. He filed for divorce nearly 4 months ago and since we have so much financial stuff to work out, it's taking forever for the divorce to be final. He has practically moved in with his new g/f and her 4 kids; treats them to dinner, little trips and so forth while the kids and I struggle to make sense of all of this.
I feel like I have nobody, both of my parents have passed and my 2 best friends have no experience with divorce. What do I do?
2006-09-19
03:46:35
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spudette70
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Marriage & Divorce