Hi, I am not living in the past,and I am now seeing a therapist, but I still have very strong feeling for my ex. My ex & I have talked and while we both agree that we love each other, he & I have moved on to others. I have been honest with my spouse and I thought these feelings were gone but they are not. I'm not trying to cheat that's why I have been honest and my spouse has encourage me to see a therapist and he says that I loved a person that did not deserve my love. My ex-spouse cheated on me and he was verbally abusive, while I know that's not a positive relationship, I still love him. I know many of you would think I am being stupid, but I have prayed and I have asked for these emotions to go away, but they haven't, any advice will be greatly appreciated. And no I am not talking to my ex, we had a talked about a year ago and my spouse knew about it. I have a good spouse and I don't want to ruin it, but I don't love him the same and I know that's not right. I just need help!
2006-09-13
05:26:24
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