I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We have a good relationship and I love him alot-- he even moved to the same city I go to med school in so we could be together. For the past 3 years, marriage was not something on my mind. But now I'm in my last year of medical school and will likely have to move to a new city for residency. My boyfriend always says that he wants to get married sometime in the near future. His game plan is for us to move wherever my residency is and buy a house together. We currently live seperately (he nixed the idea of living together when his lease expired in June). I have no doubts that he will move to the new city with me, but I dislike the love of my life being comfortable changing cities &making a huge purchase like a house, but marrying me "sometime in the future" We've discussed marriage and he said we could do it, but I want him to want us to marry by his own accord, not me give an ultimatium. What would you all do?
2006-09-08
19:23:10
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Megan W
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Marriage & Divorce