Ok well I know i made mistakes in the relationship such as cheating but i felt bad about it and that was about 4 months ago. and she said she forgave me cuz she loved me and i was showing that I was sorry and willing to earn her trust back. Now we were into our 8th month together she breaks up with me tonight by email all cuz some guy who hates me and wants her told her that I kissed another girl and that he saw it. So she broke up with me without even asking me if I did or didnt. When we talked she said it was cuz of that plus my past mistakes and she loves me but she cant take it anymore. It sucks that I didnt do anything and that she beleives this guy over me. What should I do?
2006-09-08 19:21:51 · 17 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would tell her that you admitted it before and atleast that showed honesty and after seeing the hurt you caused you wouldn't do it again, tell her to ask the supposed girl!
Good luck!
2006-09-08 19:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately you have been on thin ice since you cheated. Since she doesn't trust you anymore she was willing to believe this guy. It sucks, but hopefully you have learned your lesson and will treat the next girl better.
Breaking up with someone is really hard. It's like giving up an addiction. We do get addicted to the people we see on a daily basis. There is a chemical reaction in your brain that you get used to from seeing them all the time, so being cut off from them means going thru withdrawls.
It will suck for a while but it won't suck forever. Then you will meet someone even better than her and you will be wiser from the lessons you learned in this relationship.
2006-09-08 19:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by Reject187 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is built on trust. U made a mistake first. That is OK as both of u have reconciled. By now she should have realised it. If she is not still sure who r u? not understood u still and believes every other Tom,Dick, Harry. u cannot trust her too. What will happen
if the same thing happens after marriage. U will go thru hell.
Time is the best penitia. it will certainly heal ur wound. Forget her
and her eight months relationship.
2006-09-08 19:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by ketav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a choice. Say you're sorry, you already admitted that you cheated and to us girls that's a major blow especially so early into a relationship. You two can try and make it work if BOTH of you want to.
or
Listen to some sad songs about love gone wrong. Then when you've had enough pick yourself up and carry on. Life still moves on.
or
IM that girl :) just pray your ex never finds out cuz sometimes girls test their boyfriends to see how commit ed they are.
2006-09-08 19:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by ellegrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she won't talk to you, send her an email & ask her if she loves you & wanted to marry you, then why is she taking this guy's word over yours. You weren't engaged when you cheated on her... right? She forgave you & got engaged to you after you cheated & you haven't cheated again since then.....right?
You might work this out, but you have to talk it out. Prove to her that you are innocent.
Oh.... & don't go do somethin stupid like sit & talk this over w/another woman cuz she might think you're messin' around with her! Unless itz ur sister.
(Anyway... It really makes us mad when our guy confides about us to other women! THAT IS UNFORGIVABLE!!)
2006-09-08 20:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by ICUsmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r so stupid cause u cheated on her and that was the stupidist part about u i would of broke up w/ u 2 if i were her o and u should at least wait a day to a week b-4 dating again o and no cheating this time
2006-09-08 19:30:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit back and don't panic. This is not the end of the world.
Can you prove your innocence? If so , do it. This may not
bring her back to you. Perhaps she feels slighted because of
your indiscretion. Possibly, she's using that as an excuse.
Maybe this individual is framing you to be with her.
Keep your details to yourself, investigate it and decide
what to do. Don't despair, there are PLENTY of girls
out there Don't react, just act, calmy and graciously.
Good Luck.
2006-09-08 19:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get drunk then you'll get stoopid. best thing to do is go out and realize what you got is yourself. don't worry bout ur ex for 8 months. plenty of women out there that you might have 9 months with. anyways ur ex was weak cuz she broke up with you through email dats not love maybe she was da one who should be needing the trusting from not u. wells go out and have fun and don't mope over sum gurl.
2006-09-08 19:25:50 · answer #8 · answered by da skoolar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look dude, if she didnt even ask you or show some concern.....there wasnt much of a reationship left after your little stunt (cheating) just move on and let her be to....
2006-09-08 19:24:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you did do something.don't play the victim.you betrayed her trust in the beginning of the relationship.people don't forget it.so don't get the ring back...learn a hard lesson
2006-09-08 19:52:05 · answer #10 · answered by summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋