I just underwent a TERRIBLE breakup that shook my self esteem and trust very badly. To make a long story short, I found out he'd been lying to me for the four years we were together, to the point I don't know WHAT was real anymore. We made life plans and everything.
I'm healing, and I definitely want to date again, but I find that I'm just not very trusting of guys now. I know that this happens a lot, and I know my case isn't unusual, but what I DON'T know is how to get over this and start trusting again? There ARE trustworthy guys out there, right? Where do I find them? How can I make myself trust them? Because I know if I don't, any relationship I'm in is going to be doomed from the get-go. I'm turning 25 in October; I know that's not old or anything, but I DO want to find love and have a family one day, and I can't help but to feel like I've already wasted four years and I'm running out of time.:-/
2006-09-03
07:26:45
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