Okay, here's the deal
There's this girl that I've known for about 3 years now. Over the years, I've liked her, but she went on and dated someone else. At that time, she was one state over, so I was about 5 hours away from her. So, in a way, I understood why she dated him, but he ended up being a jerk to her. It really did a number on her, too. So now, I'm left with the emotional baggage and I'm her closest, best friend since I've known her the longest and have stuck around all this time for her.
Now, in December, my job is going to transfer me over to her state and about 10 minutes away from where she lives. When I told her this, she was so happy and so was I. But then, I started to get mixed emotions from her. One day, it would be "We would make an awesome couple" and then the next, it's "I've been hurt by (ex) and I don't want that to happen again. If you really cared for me, you would just be my friend" Now, I'm really scared and unsure of what do.
Any advice? Positive ones?
2006-08-21
21:18:33
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