well from my question before you know the back story. well my gf who by the way has been my gf since january pretty much wants my exs head on a stick. and just about everytime we talk someway or somehow she brings up how badly she wants to kill my ex. so what should i do?
2006-08-21 21:17:52 · 13 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have you ask her why she hates your ex so much? explain to her why they didn't work out in the first place. you need to explain to her that she should understand you're with her and not with them for a reason. if she still have this vendetta against your ex, she got some serious insecurity problems.
2006-08-21 21:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by mymymissmai 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems like yr GF is very insecure and perhaps you need to sit down and think as to why she is feeling that way, maybe its something yr saying or perhaps you keep going back into the past, maybe you should soul search and see if yoru over yr ex and then take it from there cause it is whn y are totally and comp over yr ex, will u be able to say and do and act the way u shud with yr present GF
2006-08-21 21:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by haboba13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just needs to talk it out and get over it. If speaking helps her get over it than that's great, but if it keeps going on, then she may have never had real closure as far the situation with the ex is concerned in which case either A) you just hope that time will iron out the wrinkles or B) she just sit down with a counselor and work through the emotions and the process of getting over him.
2006-08-21 21:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you don't LOVE your ex or have any feelings for her.........reassure she is the one you are with, so your ex shouldn't be a threat. The biggest hurt she can give your ex, is you just being her arm candy.....like ha! Look at this!!
2006-08-21 21:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by Lesley C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to her. Tell her how much you love her but you still wanna be friends with your Ex. Im still friends with my Ex when im around my boyfriend but he doesnt care. He knows me enuf to know I love him and I just want to be friend with my Ex.
2006-08-21 21:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by HiddenSecret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you don't really want your ex to go away, because you cheat on your girlfriend with her, and you actually went out with them at the same time. i think your girlfriend has every right to act this way.
2006-08-22 22:33:28 · answer #6 · answered by and so it begins... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time she starts to talk about it, let her know that everytime she brings up that topic you expect her to fulfill your needs through oral sex. She will quickly stop talking about it.
2006-08-21 21:23:03 · answer #7 · answered by maes_quest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know how much you love her and reassure her that you would never leave her. You have to eliminate all reasons for her worry. Just let her know that she has no reason to be angry.
2006-08-21 21:24:34 · answer #8 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a very immature girlfriend and I sense a lot of trouble ahead for you.
2006-08-21 21:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
put them in a room with only one pop tart and whoever wins gets to live
2006-08-21 21:23:01 · answer #10 · answered by Sentient6 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋