My son is 4 and ready for pre-school, but if I leave this marriage now, my son has to be in all day care. My husband came after my son, so he's not his dad. The marriage has been traumatized by his lies and his lack of self control. There is no trust and it is deeply unhappy. NOTHING has improved in two years. I am his third wife and hindsight is 20/20. Do I tough it out for two more years...or have my son attend daycare and get on with my life? I am an educated ex-professional turned stay at home mom. My son is an only child and the I have only been at home with him since last fall. I would like to return to work regardless, but am concerned about how it will affect my son. There is no yelling or fighting in front of my son, but I worry that he senses the tension and I also notice that he is inreasingly withdrawing from my husband. My son has great relationship with his real dad, although we never married.
2006-08-20
04:46:34
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