i think i might be pregnant?

Question

i had sex about a month ago and then again this month and the condom broke but this is a very unusual position i am in he denies it broke but when u know u have done something wrong u act unusual right aas soon as we were done he got up and ran in the bathroom and then the condom he used was a durex and then i noticed something strange on my bed and i asked him did it break he said no and then i know i didnt have a orgasm so what else could it have been and then if he says it didnt break why would he come and ask me do i have anything which is a very disrespectful question to ask what do i do ? i am not having any morning sickness but really bad headaches and bach aches and frequent urination what do i do in this situation? and if u have anything negative to say please dont answer my question thank u

Answer 1

well first i think you should find out if you are pregnant first,go to your drugstore and get a home pregnancy test and take it,if its negative then you go to the obgyn and explain what has happened and request an hiv test for your own protection.and if you are pregnant do the same,but you must find out one way or another. you must decide if you want to have this child,there are support groups and churches that will help you if you want to have the baby.good luck to you.

Answer 2

I was just in this situation. I was 10 days late though, and very stressed out. I did have headaches, migranes in fact, in the back of my head. I had frequent urination and lower back pressure. Those symptoms usually arrive before my period but I was late so I was worrying. But the only thing I could do was take a test. So I took 2 tests. Once I saw they were negative my body began to relax and I finally got my "aunt rose" visit. You'd be amazed at how your body reacts to stress. It sounds like you should take a test, to put your mind at ease, if you're late. If you're not late yet, but have this fear, get a blood pregnancy test which will be able to determine if you're pregnant, with more accuracy than a over the counter test. Sometimes if it's too early before your next period is due to arrive, an over the counter pregnancy test may not pick up on the pregancy hormone, that's why it's most efficient to get a blood test done, because a blood test can detect this at an earlier stage, to a greater degree. Either way you need to find out sooner or later. The question is, do you want to know if you are or arn't pregnant NOW or 2-3 weeks from now?? And if you by chance are pregnant, wouldn't it be better to know it sooner, so you can make a choice very early on? Good luck girl!! You'll be fine, just take a proactive step and do a test.
p.s. next time this happens, take the morning after pill (Plan B) asap, or go on birth control. Talk to your doctor, they know best. Keep using condoms too! : )

Answer 3

The only way to know for sure would be to take a pregnancy test. Most over the counter ones are accurate after the first few days after a missed period. But I always had irregular periods-sometimes a week early or 3 weeks late. So I had an idea that I might be pregnant when my breasts started aching. It was a dull ache usually when I was laying on my stomach. You don't get frequent urination until much later in the pregnancy when the fetus is big enough to push on your bladder. I never had back aches until I was much farther along-at least 6 months.

Answer 4

go to the drugstore, tests are accurate as 48 hours i believe. So if the sex was that long ago, it will surely tell you right away.

As far as fluids on the bed...durning sex all fluids are natural whether or not you had an orgasm

Frequent urination doesn't happen normally until late in a pregnancy like 6 months or so, it happens because the baby is getting larger and pushing on the bladder (not much room for all the organs once the baby starts growing)

Answer 5

i hope you are not he sounds to immature 4 dealing with pregnancy. Get checked some std can cause frequent urination and back aches so can a bladder or kidney infection BOTH of which sexually active women get more often then non sexually active women. Go to the doc i hope you don't have sex again with this guy. Good luck. iF YOU DON'T trust that he was honest about the condom breaking you need to get checked 4 pregnancy and stds.

Answer 6

Well, have you tried taking a pregnancy test, usually a good time to start asking a doctor would be right now. As we speak, because you don't want ,if you are pregnant your baby should be healthy,and you should ask alot of questions and you will get results guaranteed!!!. So ask a doctor!!!!. Or get a pregnancy test, that would be your best bet, it's quick and easy (oh and very accurate).

Answer 7

It's probably too early for you to be having real pregnancy symptoms. It generally takes 3-4 weeks after conception before you notice any changes. It could be that worrying about being pregnant is making you seem as though you've got symptoms.

Try to relax, because you won't be able to take a pregnancy test until you miss a period. Good luck!

Answer 8

Well, the backaches are generally not seen until the second trimester, when the weight of the fetus starts to press on nerves, strain abdominal muscles, etc. If you got pregnant this month, you probably wouldn't be seeing signs just yet, except maybe tender breasts. If it is time for your period, just go buy a test and see if it is positive. Good luck!

Answer 9

well dear the best way is a pregnancy test and it doesn't matter what he said or not if he has impregnated you he is responsible just as much as you. and you sound like you are not every one has morning sickness I had 4 and never had it but if you plan on having this
baby then go get checked . and if you plane not to have it well it is best to take care right now. but do think it out clearly before you make any decision . god pless you my dear and remember life is what it is and if you are it ,was ment to be . LMK

Answer 10

take and home pregnancy test use you frist mornings pee. GOING to the bath room allot is one of the first signs the next for me was wake up middle the night with dry month i could get raid of. with the head acks if you are mine i found if i would eat alil something they would go way on there on. ween your pregnant the baby take so much out of you. oh if the test come back neg wait one week test again steal neg go to you obgyn or local health deportmant and have and blood test done. some women dont have the pregnantcy hormone in there pee.

my bf now my hubby told me there was no way with my first on because i was on the pill. he would watch me take it, and guess what i was so nothing is 100%.

i took 15 test made oppment after they all come back+ told him i had and doc appoment and wanted him to go with me. we pulled up outside the obgyns office he know i told him i had taking 15 test and they all come back +. he made and smart conment that it took me 15 then he sayed ill beilive it ween the doc said so lol the doc came in the room after i had my pee test gave me and bag full of staff told congards.