I was raped by my ex after breaking up with him and it took over year to get him out of my life. This guy stalked me, my family and friends. He somehow figured out my number even when I had it changed. This all devastated me very much.He was my first bf and the first guy I loved until the above happened...
Since we broke up I have nightmares that hes following me or knows where I stay, or somehow figures out my number and calls me-even today.
I have a new bf now and weve been dating for a year now but its not going too well b/c I am so afraid of being hurt again...and of..everything.. I see my ex in my new bf all the time.. whether its something he says that the ex once said, a certain way he touches me.. I freak out and think hes going to hurt me...
pretty much I see my bf as my ex...
Weve had tallks about our connection and while we care about each other Im afraid me always thinking of my ex isnt good for us...
We tried counseling,etc. I have probs I know, what should we/I do?
2006-07-23
11:33:20
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