is there anybody that really doesn't want children and why???

Question

i surely dont't but i want to know if i am all alone on this

Answer 1

I dont want kids and I dont have any.
I always thought that the world was just to damn screwed up and overpoplated.
People dont realize that everytime you have a kid you are really dooming us in the long run.
The world is getting way to many people on it to sustain us all.
It wont be long before we go the way of the dinosaurs.

Answer 2

My wife and I have been married for over 25 years now and chose not to have children. We both agreed about this when we were married. As to the reason why, we just didn't want any. We can't come up with another reason other than that.
I have seen too many people that have kids because that's what they think they are supposed to do. They don't take the time for them after they have them and you ruin your children because of that. There are more and more messed up children in this world every day because mom and dad don't take the time to nurture them and show them love. If you are a good parent you are tired as hell at the end of the day. Why, you ask? Because doing a good job of raising kids the right way is HARD work.
Our careers weren't going to give us the opportunity to be the best parents we could be so we chose not to have children because of that. I wish more couples that don't want children but have them anyway would stop and look at the situation first. Ask? Can I be a good parent? Can I give the time to my children they need?

Answer 3

I always thought I did not want children. My reasons were many. I had been a perfect child, never asked for anything, had a huge conscience...the worst punishment for me would have been feeling like I had disappointed anyone. I did not think I would have patience for a child unless that child was just like I was. I abhor child abuse, and I just did not trust that I would have the patience. Now that I'm older, I'm kind of torn on that decision because I think I could have dealt with it. However now there are all sorts of other obstacles out there in the realm of raising children - it seems to become a scarier undertaking every day.

Answer 4

I absolutely don't, and have taken precautions to make sure it won't happen. I don't like kids, I don't feel the need to continue my existence through the existence of offspring. I don't like the way the world has changed in my lifetime and I don't think it's right for *me* to bring another life into the world, feeling the way I do about it. Also, I like my privacy--I like my time with my sweetie. I don't want the responsibility or the expense or the complications of having kids. Hee, I could go on, but I'm sure you get the idea.

I'm 28, by the way, and got sterilized last year. My guy feels exactly the same...we're getting married in October.

Answer 5

I personally love kids and have 2 of my own....But I do know 2 couples who have been married for a long time and both decided they did not want children....

I like it when people decide ahead of time if they want to bring someone into this world... Some may think that it's cruel, but I don't 'cause what's really cruel are those ones who get pregnant and try for an abortion or those who just throw their babies anywhere because they did not want to have any!

Answer 6

I have 2 kids & I don't regret it, but I admire your decision. Truth is I never thought before I had them that I might have a choice to not have children. It was implanted in me so deep that I would have kids someday that I didn't ? it. But I do think now what would my decision to be if I had asked myself.

This world has a population problem on top of all your non-selfish reasons for not wanting to be a parent. I think that makes you better than 1/2 the parents in the world already.

Answer 7

I like kids, but I'm too busy with other things.

There's no way I could devote the amount of time needed to be invested in raising a good child.

You're not alone.

A person doesn't HAVE to have children. I don't know who started that idea!

We have a right to a family, but if a person doesn't want one, that's fine too.

Answer 8

Well, I love kids, and have 2....

Not everyone is made to want kids the way that I did.

It's a great thing when those who aren't sure, or just don't want kids make the responsible decision to NOT reproduce!!!

You are not alone.

There are a TON of people who do not want kids, but do and the kids then suffer.

Answer 9

I don't want children. I don't like kids, not even for a little while, not even when I can hand them right back to there parents. Would you really want someone as clearly self centered as me bringing offspring into the world that might potencially come into contact with your brood and contaminate them with my selfish ways? I don't think so. Plus I'm greedy and I want a good husband (found!), and nice car, and a big house. =)

Answer 10

I don't want to have children, they r cute when they r still babies but when they grow up they make me want to kill them, 4 example if my sister(8) was my daughter I would have killed her by now, she is just a spoiled brat.And I hate to hit kids so why have them in the 1st place?And they r the 1st reason for which a married couple's sex and romantic life falls apart!!!