Hello, I am will try to make this short & clear. Been with husband 16years, Married three, 2 young kids under 5. He cheated on me and became hiv +. Found out when he was really sick from converting to hiv +. He was in the hospital, doctors told us he had to be infected only a couple of weeks, my whole family found out. I was tested and negative and pregnant. He had drug problem too, so I left.I tried to work it out with him, but I did not want to have sex with condoms, was too afraid of risk of failure & he said he would not be married with no sex. Was so embarrassed b/c family knows & they were scared for me. Divorce is almost final. He quit drugs for 6 mths & wants a chance. I am contemplating it is b/c I don't want my kids to have the every other weekend lifestyle of divorced kids & worried about a blood accident when I am not there with them, but would have to have sex w/ condoms and family would be so upset w/ me, Would u trust condoms? What would u do? me or kids?
2006-06-30
06:42:13
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Bet L
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Marriage & Divorce