I'm a fairly independent person. When me and my boyfriend go out I make sure we take turns paying etc, bc not only do I think it's not fair that he be the one to pay all the time, but he's also been under a bit of stress lately when it comes to cash (It took a really long time for him to accept the fact that i wanted to pay for something). However his friend quit his job hastily and is now unemployed. He has no problem making my boyfriend pay for him whenever they hang out, get a beer, whatever. As a result my boyfriend wastes all of his cash on his unemployed buddy and has taken to asking me to pay when we go out just the two of us. (If I have no cash, he asks me to hang out at his house). While I have no problem taking turns, throwing all of the financial expenses on me is unfair. It's not my place to tell him what to do about his friend, but he's starting to p*ss me off. Any advice on how to handle this?
2006-06-29
03:06:54
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