My name is Julia and I have a problem, I just got divorced after nine years of being with my ex-husband and I have two small children, the only thing I want out of life is to be happy and enjoy my family, while I was going thru my divorce I met this older guy that I thought was a great guy until I heard some of my friends that he was not and that I needed to leave him alone, After about a year I did leave him alone and moved on, in the meantime, my friends introduced me to this great guy, I mean he is really great but he has a problem, I have been dating him for six months and we have just being moving so fast in the whole relationship thing, everyone loves him and even my ex-husband says he sounds like a good guy, the problem is that he has been hurt so many times by females and past relationships that he is very insecure and does not trust me at all, he says he does but actions speak louder than words, in the meantime, the older guy has started contacting me again and wants me to give him another chance I don't know who to stay with or who to chose I am really confused and I need some advise, if I go back to the older guy will he treat me right this time around and am I willing to give this new great guy up and go back, or should I stick it out with this new guy and work with him with his trust issues and so on, please help me I am really scared I am going to make the wrong decisioin. Thank you in advance for answering my question
2006-06-26
05:10:17
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