we had alot of good times and memories..and i just cant get over those times..i just want to everything to go back to the way they used to be..
2006-06-26 05:09:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well, all your good times were probably lies as well. why would you want a friend who is a backstabber? Good luck.
2006-06-26 05:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes there your best friend will turned out to be a backstabber. I had a few of them, but all you can do is just remember the good times and you will get better! Find new friends and you'll see things will turn out just right!
2006-06-26 05:18:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kristie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dere really is nothing you can do besides just ignore it. u should let yourself cry a lil bit and then move on. it may hurt to let go of a person you thought was a good friend but it will hurt more if you hold on. and even though you can't stop thinking about all the good times you had together as friends dat only shows that you miss who your bestfriend was and thats ok. but the thing is that you for now you can try and just get some new friends. it'll keep your mind off of thinkin about dat person and what dey did. try and do something you've always wanted to do (dance classes, yoga, etc.) and meet new people. who knows you might meet someone really nice and you'll have a new bestfriend but the thing is that it takes time for these things to heal.
2006-06-26 05:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by nycangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be friends with a backstabber? I understand that you all had good times together, but it is time to move on and find a true friend. You will make more happy memories with your new found friend.
2006-06-26 05:12:04 · answer #4 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. Everybody I know has let me down at one point or another. What you have to remind yourself is that you thought this person was your best friend, when they in fact were not. A best friend would not stab you in the back. Be thankful for the good times and memories and move on.
2006-06-26 05:13:47 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get over it! Get occupied in an activity, or creative thing to help keep your mind busy.. you will have more best friends who will be way better than that one,., life is too short to live in the past and worry about such trival things. Believe me I have been there many times.. just do not worry about it.
2006-06-26 05:12:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Double check on it, and confirm that she's the B ; T C H. If she is, get her to give you a straight answer. If there is malice involved, and you still wanna be friends with her, then you can might as well hand her the knife to stick it into your back again.
2006-06-26 05:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by KH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn and move on. some people are opportunistic and promote their own agendas at the expense of others. my advice is to take the special times and cherish them and learn from the challenges. to stay close with a person who can and will use you is going to take changing who you are, and no one is worth you. find friends who care and love you just for who you are. my mother has always said, if you find just one true person to be your friend through life, consider yourself extremely lucky.
2006-06-26 05:15:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all think about all of the things that you all have been through together. You both have invested alot of time into you alls friendship. A true friendship is hard to find.
2006-06-26 05:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's too late now, things are in the past. U have to move on, and hopefully make a new pal and start enjoying the memories your making with them.
2006-06-26 05:12:56 · answer #10 · answered by Jen S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋