from time to time i lose all control over myself. i feel like i'm going crazy. i cry for no reason, yell, scream, and just throw things. i can't control it and i feel as if i would be better of dead. i know the things i'm saying are stupid but i can't help it. i feel hopeless, worthless, and feel like i will never truly be happy. do you guys think i need to talk to my doctor about these things.
2006-06-26 05:10:00 · 8 answers · asked by lover143 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
or should i try to handle them on my own. everything about my life sucks and it doesn't matter how hard i try i never get ahead. i never feel better. i went to counseling but still it didn't help out. i don't know what to do. i need to fix myself and life before my child picks up on this and turns out like me. Depression is a big thing in my family and bu polar is as well. i just want a normal life whatever that is.
2006-06-26 05:12:09 · update #1
i'm not pregnant or lost a love one. these are feelings that i have almost everyday. there is nothing going on in my life to make me feel this way. i have 2 jobs, a new car, a new house, a beautiful child, and great boyfriend. my family is supportive and my friends are great
2006-06-26 05:21:39 · update #2
You Def. need to talk to your Doc and talk things out get some meds, Don't feel crazy it's completely commen, I had bad depression too and I was on meds for about a year untill I got preg and after that I felt fine and I stopped taking the meds..Don't feel helpless and worthless because your Not..You helped me with a problem I was having, and It was a really Great answer thank you very much. Just talk to your doc and start working these things out because you dont want to lose the important people & things in your life, trust me..Don't wait I hope everything works out for you
2006-06-26 06:31:42 · answer #1 · answered by Alanacoolata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Girl, it does sound as if you are deeply depressed. I know you say you have no reason to feel like this , that all is going well in your life. But think about this....alot of people put the other person ahead of themselves and forget their own needs. I am only guessing from the way you have written, that you are a very giving person and do not expect anything in return. There is nothing wrong with that as long as you remember taking care of you.
Advice:
See a Dr. to help get started on some depression meds. Lexapro works well for alot of people without the significant weight gain you get from other antidepressants as a side effect.
It may be hard for you to do..and perhaps you may feel guilty about it..but make yourself do this....go out and do something for yourself, something you have really wanted to do and have not taken time to do it.
Do things for yourself on occasion. Have a "my" day out...
Hope this helps in some way....THINK OF YOURSELF..its not selfish ...
2006-06-26 12:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by Pammie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definatley need to talk to your doctor. Are you pregnant? Lost a loved one? Break up of a relationship? There is something going on in your life for you to feel such worthlessness. I am sure you are lovely person that is just going through some things right now.... I would definatley seek some sort of help...
Good Luck sweetie... and stop crying so much, your gonna make that pretty face all puffy!
2006-06-26 12:18:54 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how old you are your body could be going through a change. Or being a women a chemical imbalance could be accruing. Just to make sure things are okay throughout your body you might want to speak with a doctor. Have them run some test, check your blood count all that stuff. They could probably give you so really good tips. Try to avoid medication because sometimes that puts you deeper into whats going on if its not a serious medical problem.
2006-06-26 12:50:24 · answer #4 · answered by ronce_1118 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your doctor and tell them everything you've said here and more, they can probably help you, I truly believe you are not crazy its depression and anxiety and of course try to stay away from your child when these moments begin. Hey, life is beautfil and you know this inside thats why you have this pretty picture in your square. Smile, and pray its the best! Hang out with friends and relax!!!! Life is to short for so many unecessary worries!!! Seek your doctor and friends help!
2006-06-26 12:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband has depression, and when his meds are balanced, he is fine. When they are not balanced, or if he forgets to take them, he is like you.
You are not stupid, you have depression, and just need to talk to your doctor to get your meds regulated. You WILL be happy, and you WILL have a normal life, but you just need a little help. This is not a problem with you that you can fix alone, it is your body chemistry and you need medication.
Good luck!!!
2006-06-26 12:15:27 · answer #6 · answered by Leah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you need to talk to a therapist...You don't need to be having negaive thoughts..Get to a therapist quick so you can get past this and start having fun
2006-06-26 12:15:54 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes talk to your dr.....i know how you feel depression can really hurt..
2006-06-26 12:17:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋