My husband and I both work. I am happy with this, and am more than happy to contribute to our finances and towards our future. But I am not my husbands only wife. His other wife does not work and does not contribute anything. She is not even in this country, but we are responsible for her bills. She has 2 kids by my husband and they are both in school. She says she cannot work becasue of the kids, but they are in school for 8 hours a day and she sits at home when they are there. All of the money my husband and I do not spend on bills goes to her, so we are not able to save money towards our future. I have spoken to my husband about this, but when he speaks with her, she says it is her only job as a Muslim woman to stay home and raise the kids. I am a Muslim woman and I work along side my husband with no problems. I cannot even have a child because we have no money since she takes it all. We send her my whole paycheck every month.
My question is, who is right in this situation?
2007-02-10
14:41:50
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