Has anyone ever been in an abusive marriage, or had abusive parents from your childhood, that your minister has encouraged you to CONTINUE trying to develop a close relationship with?
However, you prayed on the matter, and chose to distance yourself from these loved one's because their presence was toxic in your life?
After doing so, did you find that you made the right decision? Did your life improve? How did your minister react to your unwillingness to heed their advice?
I believe in forgiveness, but I do not feel it is always safe, healthy, or needed to continue working on relationships with abusive people who are not willing to communicate, and have been abusive towards you for years. What are all of your thoughts?
2006-09-01
13:47:33
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Nola
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